Tending the Hearth

I am a free and independent woman. I choose my own path in life - whether that is to go to work, school, dance at a strip club, or stay at home - whatever.

I choose to stay at home. I'm not being oppressed. I'm not being forced to stay barefoot and pregnant. I choose to stay at home.

Not only do I choose to stay at home, but I have chosen to extend my "duties" and home school my son. Home schooling takes a tremendous amount of effort on my part. It is like having a full time job that you never get to take a beak from. But it is my choice. I love having a choice.

Getting off topic here. lol Perhaps this article from DailyOM might shed some light.

Have a great weekend!

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Tending the Hearth
Women’s Work

In the recent past, the term women’s work has come to have a derogatory connotation. Women’s work encompasses all the domestic chores that have historically been associated only with women—cooking, cleaning, and raising children. Whenever a person is limited to only certain kinds of work in a society, there is a need to break free from that work in order to inhabit a place of choice. However, when we choose to do women’s work because we enjoy it, there is nothing degrading about it. There is an honor to it, and when done alone or in a group this work can be truly meaningful and fulfilling because the home is the foundation of security for all who live in it. The importance of tending the hearth that nurtures all who bask in its warmth cannot be overstated.

In addition to being essential to the functioning of the world, women’s work offers creative fulfillment, intimate interaction, and personal satisfaction. The more we become aware of the significance of this realm of labor, the more fulfilling it will be to those who do the work and those who benefit from it. A well-set table and a delicious, healthy meal can heal us on multiple levels. Clean, crisp sheets on a bed allow us to enter a deep slumber, inspiring a sense of safety and trust. Our mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health all rest upon the smooth functioning of our homes.

The gift of women’s work, which still often comes from the hands of women, now also comes from fathers, husbands, and hired help. Whatever the source, our sincere gratitude upon receiving these treasures reminds us of the profound value of what is traditionally known as women’s work. The more we acknowledge the tremendous importance of this work, the more we are able to do it with a sense of pride, never feeling for a moment that our efforts are less significant or meaningful than those working outside the home—on the contrary, it is this work that makes all other work possible.

http://www.dailyom.com/articles/2010/21588.html