The Loss of a Loved One

Most people think that when you say you loose a loved one, you are referring to a member of your family. At least, a human member of your family. For the most part, that is true. For me, however, a loved one also means a beloved pet.

Unless you love your pets dearly, I don't think one could truly understand how hard it is to loose one. It is the very same as loosing a human loved one.

Yesterday afternoon, my beloved little bunny Jasper passed on. He was 7 1/2 years old - quite old for a rabbit. They typically only live 4-5 years. I have had many bunnies over the years and some lived quite long, others did not. Jasper, however, was my little baby bunny. He was the sweetest little thing. He loved to be held and would give you "bunny kisses" back. He loved to cuddle up on my chest and under my chin and actually started "purring".

During the past few months, I noticed that Jasper was slowing down a lot. He still ate and drank and pooped, but I could tell that he was having troubles. I did what I could for him and assured him that I still loved and held him dear. I knew that he would soon pass on and I accepted it. I did not bother with the other 4 steps of grief, been through it enough.

All I can say is that Jasper had a very long life, and what appeared to be a happy life. It is sad to see him gone - his condo is empty and there is no playful thumping coming from his corner of the house and I will miss him terribly. But I am so grateful to have spent the time I did with him. I am happy to have so many fun memories with him and I will never forget them. Jasper was and in my memory will always be my little baby bunny.

Jasper
Netherland Dwarf

Born: June 03
Died: Jan. 8, 2010